King’s is committed to creating a welcoming, inclusive and safe environment for all members of our community. This means protecting our students, staff and visitors both on our campuses and in our digital spaces from the following unacceptable behaviours:

  • bullying
  • harassment
  • sexual misconduct, and
  • restriction of free speech or academic freedom.

Find out more about our approach to preventing and addressing bullying, harassment and sexual misconduct.

Gaslighting is contrary to the King's College London's Dignity at King's - Prevention of Bullying, Harassment and Sexual Misconduct Policy

It's happened to someone I know, what can I do?

It's happened to someone I know, what can I do?

If you know someone who has been affected by gaslighting, you are not alone and support is available.

  • Think 
    • Find a safe space. If an incident has just happened, try to help them find somewhere they feel safe.
    • What is gaslighting? It might be useful to think about what is meant by gaslighting and how this behaviour is described.
  • Talk
    • Listen. Just taking the time to listen to someone and talk about what has happened can help. Try these 6 active listening tips to help you support them.
    • Give options. When they have finished talking, ask them if they are okay to talk through some possible options and next steps.
    • You can encourage them to seek support. If this is a fellow student, encourage them to explore the guidance we have on Student Services Online, as described above, especially for our guidance for looking after your health and wellbeing.
    • Alternatively, you can make an anonymous disclosure which will allow us to investigate if there are multiple instances in one area.
  • Find out more
  • Get support

There are two ways you can tell us what happened